NewCross-border matchmaking, with a real matchmaker

Where hearts
cross borders.

InterLove brings together remarkable people across America and China — and gives every member a personal matchmaker to guide the way.

Join 50,000+ verified members worldwide
It's a matchLily & James
50,000+
Verified members
8,200+
Couples introduced
1:1
Matchmaker per member
12
Countries & regions
How it works

Five steps from hello to happily.

No swiping, no games — just a warm, guided path to someone real.

01

Join & verify

Sign up and confirm your identity. Real people only.

02

Like someone

Browse a curated feed and like who catches your eye.

03

Match mutually

When it's mutual, a private chat opens up.

04

Matchmaker pairs

Your matchmaker proposes an exclusive pairing.

05

Talk freely

Chat with no limits — we translate in between.

Your matchmaker
What makes us different

A real person, devoted to your story.

Every member is paired with a professional matchmaker who learns who you are, hand-selects introductions, and personally proposes the one pairing worth your time.

Hand-selected, never random

Pairings come only from people you've both already liked, then refined by a human.

Exclusive by design

A confirmed pairing is just the two of you — a real relationship, not a numbers game.

Guidance, end to end

From first message to meeting in person — across language and time zones.

Built for distance

Two languages. Twelve time zones. One conversation.

Live translation

Write in your language, read in theirs. Long-press any message for an instant, natural translation.

Across time zones

See their local time beside yours, so a good-morning never lands at midnight.

Mutual matching

Conversations open only when interest is shared — no cold messages, no noise.

Inside the app

Warm, simple, and made for two.

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Liked me Visitors Smart New My likes
Online
Lily28
Shanghai · Master's · Designer
Travel · Fitness · Music
Browse
A calm, vertical feed — never a swipe deck.
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Lily
Online
Today 14:30
你的旅行照片太美了——最后一张在哪拍的?
Your travel photos are amazing — where was the last one taken?
14:32
Iceland — last winter ❄️
14:33
冰岛!那正好排在我清单第一位。
Iceland! That's right at the top of my list.
14:34
Maybe I'll take you someday 🙂
14:35
Lily is in Shanghai · 21:48
Message
Talk
Each language, translated quietly underneath.
Officially matched
Congratulations,
you're matched!
Your matchmaker brought you together. You can now chat freely.
Start chatting
Maybe later
Matched
The moment a matchmaker's work pays off.
Membership

Love, taken seriously.

A signature service for women seeking a true match — concierge matchmaking, image consulting, and a matchmaker who answers only to you.

VIP I
By private consultation
1-year service
  • 1 curated pairing / month
  • Dedicated matchmaker
  • Profile & styling guidance
VIP II
By private consultation
2-year service
  • 3 pairings / month
  • Personality matching
  • Background checks
VIP III
By private consultation
3-year service
  • 3 priority pairings / month
  • In-person meeting support
  • Immigration legal counsel
Signature
VIP IV
By private consultation
With written assurance
  • Unlimited pairings
  • Full concierge & events
  • Written satisfaction assurance

Membership is arranged through a private consultation — never purchased in-app. We don't promise outcomes; we promise dedicated, professional care.

Safety & Trust

Real people. Real care. Real peace of mind.

Real-name verification

Government-grade identity and liveness checks. Every member is a verified, real person — no bots, no catfish.

Human moderation

A trained team reviews messages to keep scams and pressure off the platform — quietly, in the background.

Privacy & invisibility

Decide exactly who sees you. Go invisible at any time, and share only what you choose to.

Stories

Distance was never the obstacle.

I'd given up on apps. Having a matchmaker who actually knew me changed everything — she introduced me to Mei, and we married last spring.
Ken, 41
San Francisco, USA
The translation made it effortless — we spoke our own languages and still understood each other. It never felt like a foreign romance.
Sora, 31
Beijing, China

Your person is
out there.

Join InterLove and let a matchmaker help you find someone worth crossing oceans for.